Have you ever heard of a prostate massage? They are sometimes used as a form of therapy to help relieve any pain or pressure that occurs in the area. They are also used to help with erectile dysfunction or pelvic inflammation. But prostate massages are primarily used as a way to increase pleasure during sex. One of the best ways to do this is with a prostate massager. If you are curious about incorporating prostate stimulation into your sex life, here are some of the reasons you should take the plunge.
What is a Prostate Massager?
Before we get into why you should try out a prostate massager, let’s go over what a prostate massager actually is. Prostate massagers come in a variety of designs, but the most common design you will see looks similar to a typical dildo or vibrator. The major difference is that they are not typically as long in length as dildos that are intended for vaginal penetration. They also usually have a similar “come hither” shape to that of a dildo that is designed to hit the female G-spot.
Most will follow this standard design but you can also find varieties that offer extra features. Some of them vibrate, rotate, or even thrust and they may come with an extra “rabbit” feature which allows stimulation internally and externally. You can also find them in hands free variations. Definitely take your time to shop around when choosing a prostate massager. Some are better for partner or solo play and certain ones require more experience for best results.
Why You Need One
So now that you know what exactly a prostate massager is, you may be wondering why you need one in your life. If you are part of the large percentage of men who have yet to explore prostate stimulation, there are some things you need to know about the potential for pleasure in this area. An orgasm with a prostate massager differs quite significantly from an orgasm achieved through stimulation of the penis. We’ll start with the obvious and point out that the location that the stimulation occurs in is completely different. This changes the experience in and of itself, so if you are looking to change things up in the bedroom, that alone is a reason to try prostate massaging out.
Other than the difference in the stimulated area, another difference in a prostate-induced orgasm is the intensity of your climax. It is said that a penile orgasm involves around four to eight muscles contracting simultaneously to create the feeling of orgasm. When you have a prostate stimulated orgasm, the muscles involved climb to around a dozen. Therefore, you can expect any orgasms you have through prostate stimulation to feel far more intense and pleasurable to that of a penile one.
Another thing that is responsible for the more intense orgasms that many men have when trying anal play is the P-spot. The P-spot, similar to the female G-spot, is a pleasure point that exists in the prostate. This is what the unique design of a prostate massager aims to hit. So, if you have always been curious about the wonders of the female G-spot, fear not. Men can experience this type of intense targeted pleasure too.
As mentioned previously, there have been times where prostate massagers were used to cure impotence. While there is no medical consensus on the subject, as most of the evidence is anecdotal, there have been men who have experienced success using this method. If you are experiencing impotence, it doesn’t hurt to give it a try. There is little risk involved and the worst case is that nothing happens. And the best case is that you have a mind-numbing orgasm that propels you back to your former self.
Proceed With Caution
If you are new to anal play, make sure that you are taking the proper steps before diving in. You can cause harm to the thin tissue that lines your anus if you take things too fast. Go slow and make sure that you wait for your muscles to be fully relaxed. Start with your fingers before inserting the massager to test the waters and make sure you are ready. If you are having trouble, have a water-based lubricant on hand.
If you proceed with caution and take your time your first prostate massager experience is sure to be a great one. And who knows, you might just find your prostate massager making a regular appearance during your time in the bedroom.